Will Living Through a Pandemic Change the Way We Express Ourselves?
Over the years, Americans have adopted a set of manners and etiquette that guides our society. Before COVID, people greeted one another with a handshake, a kiss on the check, or by sharing a warm hug. We routinely clinked glasses for a heartfelt toast or had grandma and our one-year old do their best to blow out candles on their cake. Now with a contagious disease among us, many of these polite and/or loving gestures have been put on hold to help keep our family and friends safe.
However etiquette consultant Jodi Smith explains we should not worry too much about these symbols as, "etiquette is always evolving, it's never set in stone.” She adds, “What's set in stone is the idea of respect for myself and respect for others.” Remember there are other ways to safely express ourselves and some may stay with us long after the coronavirus is gone.
In terms of handshakes, it probably bears repeating that not everyone in the world uses the handshake as a greeting. Many cultures find it impolite and instead clasp their hands together over their heart and give a respectful nod to the person. Etiquette experts say that is one good substitute for a handshake as it is simply stopping before the person, putting your hands behind your back and nodding an acknowledgement.
As much of the country is being encouraged to wear masks to help stop the spread of the coronavirus, we are also seeing more and more brightly colored, decorated masks that match a person’s outfit or indicate their support for a certain team, college affiliation, and more. Someone’s mask may express their political leanings, artistic preferences or wearing a Star Wars mask as my grandson proudly does in support of his favorite heroes. This isn’t new as throughout history, disease has influenced social norms as in the 1800s when gloves were worn not only to symbolize social status but to help protect against contagious diseases like typhoid fever and smallpox.
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Source: aarp.org/home-family/friends-family/info-2020/etiquette-coronavirus.html